Starting a dinner church is an exciting new venture. But before we begin, it’s important to have several questions answered ahead of time – logistics, team culture, expectations, prayer, sustainability, etc. Before beginning dinner church spend time asking yourself and your team questions. And consider utilizing these questions with your dinner guests as well. Questions to Ask of Yourself Am I spiritually centered as we begin this initiative? What is the Lord asking of me right now? Who can join me to be committed in prayer for me, the team, and those who will be attending dinner church? Do I have the adequate support from – and with – a team of people who want to serve and lead? How frequently should we host dinner church? Weekly? Bi-monthly? Monthly? How can I best lead and serve our team? How can I best lead and serve our guests? Questions to Ask of Your Team Why do people want to join the dinner church team? What areas/roles do you long for them to play (i.e. shopping, cooking/preparing food, setting tables, greeters, sharing a Jesus story, conversation partners at tables, clean up team, etc.)? What commitment is needed to be a part of the team (i.e. time, prayer, faith, logistics, etc.)? When – and how often? How can we make dinner church sustainable for the long haul? How do we ensure that the details and logistics of dinner don’t override the importance of prioritizing relationships? How will we help get the word out and invite others to join us? What are expectations and responsibilities before? During? After? What do we long for God to do through this dinner church? What does “success” look like a year from now? What 2-3 adjectives do we want to use to describe the feel/ethos of dinner church? How often should the team meet to pray, plan, and discuss further details? Questions to Ask of Those You Meet at Your Table How did you first year about dinner church? It’s not often you hear the word “dinner” and “church” next to each other. What do you think about the idea of dinner church? Do you have any experience with church? With faith? with God? If so, what has that been like? What are some of the most meaningful times you’ve had another a table before? What did you think about the Jesus story? What detail or element of the story stuck out to you? What implications do you think this story might have on your life today? If you could ask Jesus 2-3 questions after this story occurred, what would you ask him – and why? If Jesus were sitting at this table sharing this meal with us this evening, what would you want to ask him? Are there ways I can pray for you? (Would you like me to pray for you right now, or would you like to me to pray for you throughout the week?) Did you like the meal this evening? Can you join us for dinner church next time?
Anniversaries are always rich times to look back, look around, and look forward. It helps us to gain perspective, to celebrate where God has been at work, and to look strategically and wisely at the future for how to best position ourselves for future kingdom fruit. On each anniversary take time on your own, and with your team, to interact around the following questions. LOOKING BACK : Where have we seen God show up in the past year? How can I/we pause and thank God for His work through this mission? What do we need to celebrate? Who do we need to celebrate? Where has the Spirit surprised us this year? What do we need to grieve? What do we need to let go of? What have we needed to unlearn and relearn? What do we still need to unlearn and relearn? What hard-fought lessons have we learned through this process? LOOKING AT THE PRESENT: Read Ecclesiastes 3:1-10. What season do we sense our FX is in right now? And what implication(s) might that have if that’s the season/time we’re in right now? How is the team’s morale right now (are they encouraged? Discouraged? Exhausted? Energized? Confused? Hopeful? Expectant? Something else?) LOOKING FORWARD: What do we need to keep? What do we need to tweak? What do we need to chuck? What do we need to start? What do we sense God calling us to become and do in the future? Who else can join us as we serve and lead? What does our team need right now (i.e. encouragement, support, affirmation, prayer, training/equipping, reminding, etc.)? How might we deepen our trust in Christ and the Spirit’s power in the days ahead? What would that require of us to do that? Who isn’t yet apart of this fresh expression that we would love to introduce them to Jesus and His kingdom? What “big asks” are we making of God in this next season? What new ground do we want to take in the name of Jesus and for the glory of God?
On the corner of 10th Street and 9th Avenue in St. Cloud, Florida, the hum of washing machines mixes with conversation, laughter, and the smell of a shared meal. It doesn’t look like church. But it is. Here’s a quick look at what it is, how it works, and why it matters. What It Is Laundry Love in St. Cloud is a Fresh Expression of church that gathers at Kipp’s Laundromat on the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Tuesdays of each month from 10:00 AM–1:00 PM. Volunteers help neighbors wash two loads of clothing, with bedding available at 12:15 PM if machines are open. A meal is also provided. There is no stage. No formal program. No pressure. Just people meeting a practical need — and discovering that the laundromat can become sacred space. How It Works The model is simple and deeply relational. Volunteers arrive with quarters, detergent, and open hearts. Guests load machines. People sit together while clothes spin. A meal is shared. Conversations unfold naturally. Prayer is offered when welcomed. Names are remembered. Stories are honored. The rhythm is consistent. The posture is present. The invitation is gentle. Instead of asking neighbors to come to church, this community shows up in a place people already gather — meeting both tangible and spiritual needs in the same room. Why It Matters Laundry is one of the quiet stressors of poverty. When families must choose between groceries, rent, and transportation, clean clothes can feel like a luxury. Yet laundry impacts school attendance, job interviews, confidence, and dignity. Laundry Love restores more than clothing. It restores belonging. The fruit looks like: A parent exhaling because school clothes are clean A senior lingering because someone finally asked how they’re doing A volunteer discovering that mission doesn’t require a microphone In a world where many feel unseen, this Fresh Expression reminds us that church can begin with something as simple as a spin cycle. Where in your community do people quietly carry burdens? What if the Church met them there?
